Sometimes It's Not ok to let Things Go

I just dont understand how people can sit and just let people treat them like crap. I dont care if it is your parent or child you dont have to take it. Stand up and say "NO this is unacceptable!" How do you pick which child means more to you? Or grandchild? I cant do that with my kids and grandkids. I am not the type to just sit and let people walk all over me so I wont upset anyone. If you are upsetting me you will know about it. I am not one to "just keep the peace". You will know I have an issue and I really dont care if your feelings get hurt because you have hurt me. You have hurt my family and that is so not ok! I'm not sure how I am going to get through this weekend, it might turn out really bad for my marriage but I cant sit by and see my husband and youngest child be pushed out. I dont care if you like me that is unimportant, but you will show some respect to my husband and my baby girl. If you keep choosing not to well then that is your choice and you can just stay away for all I care. That isnt gonna go over well with my husband but its how I feel!