I sit back and think, I know scary, why would a parent act this way? Why would you keep a child away from their other parent? You liked that person enough at some point to have a sexual relationship with and have a child. Since that the relationship between the 2 adults didnt work out does not give 1 parent the right to keep the child from the other parent. You dont have to like that person or even the person they decided to have in their life, but at the very least you should have respect for your child. Put your feelings and thoughts aside and do what is best for the child.
I dont care who likes me and who doesnt. Thats their problem not mine. I wasnt put on this earth to make all others happy. If I was I am SO failing. I do what I think is right for me and my family. I have never even thought bout keeping my kids from their other parent. I have never made money and issue. I care more about their relationship than I do about money. In the end that's what counts. But I guess to some that doesnt really matter.
Monday, February 13, 2012
Sunday, February 12, 2012
Over the edge
I have known this day was coming but I hoped it wouldnt. I am supposed to sit by and watch my husband be trashed and treated like crap by hi EX-wife. He is hurt everyday by not getting to see his oldest daughter Eleigha. Not only does this hurt him it hurts Eleigha and our daughter her sister Gracie. I can no longer sit quietly and watch this happen. I have also seen some of the things this "woman" has to say about me. If she were a real woman or mother she wouldnt hurt her child to get back at a man who loves his children more than anything, just to make herself feel better. She moved on with her live while still married to John. Now that she doesnt have him jumping through her hoops and he has moved on with his life she has an issue. It kills me seeing what are supposed to be grown-ups and parents acting this way. In the bigger picture of things the only people honestly getting hurt in this are the children. I have now been taken to a place where I am going to do everything in my power to show her that she needs to think more about her child than herself. Our thoughts and feelings toward each other dont count it's how these children feel and what this is doing to them.
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